Caliban.
Look at your wifes view. She would say yes you were.

But we all have relationships outside of married if they be friendships, aquaintences etc.

Your first love will always be your first love and with that we all see with blinders on. First let me say this. Look at the reasons you separated and all.
The universe is strange but for some reason it also connected you to your wife,Who you say you still love.

Hon just really think about what you are doing . if you are going to leave. Do it as painlessly as you can.

Rhiannon

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I love the night
I love the element of danger and the ecstasy of flight,
I love the night
I love to dance with a stranger and to feel his delight,
And when the dancing is through, I kick off my shoes,
And I listen to the beating of his heart