just have a lil comment to make- pepsigirl if you don't want to do sumthing u shouldnt feel pressured into doing it- no matter how much u love sumone you shouldnt feel that you would lose them- just becos they could 'get that kind of stimulation else where'- if he does- then hes obviously not good enough for you- and you're better off without him!- well thats just my two cents worth lol - also- whatever makes people feel good i say go for it