I once went 32 days without any sexual intimacy. It was situational though, not self-imposed. I did pleasure myself, but not much because it just wasn't as fulfilling.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.