Being a guy, there's a whole other dynamic than there is with a female, I imagine. I used to be quiet as a mouse. I grew up painfully shy so I had a hard time letting go. I was very nervous about embarassing myself. Not like now. lol

If you like someone "warts and all" then they will see that in you and become more comfortable with you and themselves. I practically need to be gagged now. I think she liked it better when I barely squeaked.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.