Sum1new - I'm at a similar stage in life to you - perhaps there are more dangerous motivations behind this fantasy.

Do you feel your sex life has stagnated?

Does your wife show her appreciation of you enough?

On the other hand there is a long standing tradition of the Bacchanalia - this is an opportunity for women to get out of the marriage box and go wild for a night each year - no holes barred, no questions asked.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.