Damn, I missed the light bondage...... how do blue fuzzy handcuffs sound to you?? Trust is the only advice I can offer on the bondage thing. Blindfolds and handcuffs shouldn't be used lightly and definately not by inexperienced lovers. I experienced one of those moments when one of my ex's had me handcuffed and blindfolded.....it's not a mistake I'll EVER repeat again. The handcuffs stay in the dresser drawer util I'm positive my current partner is sexually matured enough to take the responsibility.

As for the older woman thing that's a typical deal. I think that just ONCE in every man's life he should be with an older, more experienced woman. If you can survive the experience, lol, You'll definately walk away a better man for it. And anyone that gives you a disgusted look for being with a woman twice you age, give em' the bird. And then think back on what you've learned.....

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The Heartless One