I think you might be right. For the first years of my marriage I kissed my wife and told her I loved her before I went to sleep every night. However, I realized that she never returned or initiated the kiss. So I stopped. Ever since then things have went downhill. So at the beginning of 2003 I started again and lo and behold she is responding positively. Maybe my wife got used to it and when I stopped she figured I stopped loving her. Well, that's my theory and I'm sticking to it.

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