Yes:

Be more engaged in my life
Address tasks more productively
Complete a lot of home repairs


No:

Neglecting things & people that matter to me...including me
Sitting at home when other people socialize
Enabling (which will be the toughest challenge)

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.