I don't agree w/you, Whitehorse, that she was necessarily uptight. To act out a play rape does not necessarily HAVE to include humiliation, and to me calling someone a slut or a bitch is humiliating and disrespectful. I happen to love play rape (from a loving dom, so to speak), in which their is an ambiance of "fun" such as when one kid will dare another (I'll bet you can't catch me...and they're off running). Do you know what I mean? I love being overpowered if it really is concensual. I also love when a guy talks dirty, but certainly that doesn't have to include words that are demeaning. You can say, "Ohhhh, Baby, I want to fuck your pussy NOW...." You don't have to say, "Ohhh, I want to fuck your pussy NOW, Bitch...."

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