I don't do revenge very well.

I think about alot of things I would do if I could bring myself to do it......but I never do it!

The only thing I can think of that "really got to him" was......

Once, before hubby and I were married......he thought he wanted another woman. I did all the crying, I wrote down some stuff for him to read and think about (as this other woman was a "best friend")....and then I kicked him out! The next day, after he had all his shit in the truck and was leaving to go to his mother's......I stopped him at the door, I told him he had my blessing to go "be with" this other woman and that I would give him a little time to decide....her or me! I then presented him with a tiny little clock (a replica of a mantle clock) and told him to keep it with him but don't ever wind it. When it ran down, then he would know his time was up! He left crying! I didn't sway! I smiled and told him, "Have fun storming the castle"!

He came home 3 days later.......and the clock was still running!

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