I never said I didnt make any attempt to make them feel desirable, quite the opposite. We play around and are intimate 24/7 , just no full on action and really she is much like i am, and sort of adament of the whole situation. Taking our time really, my only problem was wondering mainly about the past experiences and as to why they felt the need to leave. It couldnt have been for the reason of no sexual attention, its always been like that, just no real sex is all.