Monogamy is not the natural state for any Ape. Some try to justify it through divine approval or cultural dogma, but in the end the committment to it rests with the individuals. Once and if this committment has been accepted by both parties then it may be safe to explore ideas that seem contradictory to the commitment. I used to have these thoughts FFM and MMF - for me I think it was the Ape coming out.

I have found that you need to be either very together with yourselves or grown up and experienced to reach this point. Most people under thirty that I have met (and I include myself) are still kids and do not have a real understanding and acceptance of who they are and what they want truly from their life experience.

It's not wrong to get married young, but it is difficult - good luck Hitachi, you seem to be taking the right approach to your challenges

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.