Steph, not really sure why it's such a turn on but I think for most guys it really is.

Under the surface, I think there's a real hope that our seed is really seen and enjoyed by our partner as a most special gift. And I think that carries a thrill of it's own. Maybe it's like when you ladies have sometimes expressed a thrill seeing the pleasure you've brought to your partner.

I enjoy it, too, when my wife toys with my semen and even traces some on me. And my wife has asked if I would "clean her up," and I have. I really enjoy doing things that make her happy.

Gee, that sounds serious.