Maybe he can help, my lady likes for me to "manipulate" her whilst I am poking away. Eventually (with some guidance initially), she will come. I think everyone is different, met plenty of females that were not easily orgasmic. I thin k you are plenty normal.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours