Altho I appreciate your opinion blkcat, I must disagree.

I think it is great that based on your personal life experiences, that you believe that if you kept something from your s/o (or visa versa) that it would be a sign that your relationship needs work. However, let me remind you that EVERYONE is different.

There are many people (here at pixies and in the world in general) that keep things from their s/o and in no way is it necessarily a indication as to whether their relationship needs work. Some relationships have the "don't ask, don't tell" philosophy, while others find it necessary to look outside their relationship for things that they desire yet still have absolutely no desire to change their relationship in any way and is satisfied with the way things are (thus keeping their "indisgressions" to themselves since they don't want to change what they already have).

I don't find that ANY blanket statement fits here.... everyone is different... many have open relationships... or CHOOSE not to be exclusive yet LIKE their relationship the way it is. People have different motives and desires for the things that they do...


just my two cents.