WTG jenna, your last post just saved me from having to say the same thing....saved me because I would be much less eloquent than your post.


blkcat...you cannot possibly impose your beliefs on everyone here, or else you have missed the raison d'etre for this site. As jenna said, everyone is different. Keeping things from one's S/O is no different (in some cases) to the occasional "white lie" that smooths out the differences among people. My S/O has a significantly lower sex drive, does that mean the relationship needs work? NO!!!! It means that we see the world differently and we find our own way in areas that do not match. Seems to be the stuff that compatibility is made of....no two people can agree on everything all the time. And sex is generally a difficult area for discussion, if it is a problem, or could be a problem, there is no wrong keeping it away from your loved one. It is not dishonesty, merely a recognition of what you know about the person who is so close to you, and respect for how they feel.

BORU