05-01-2003, 07:44 AM
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Bastard of Member
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Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Illinois
Posts: 6,029
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Quote:
Originally posted by blkcat
jennaflower and Boru,I am playing the devils advocate here,
but your arguments are only excuses.
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Sometimes having some secrets are a way to stay sane. Keeping secret of something or maybe just not talking about something that the other knows is going on can be a form of compromise. I am sure if you ask any couple that has been together for 50-60 years they will surprise you in many ways on the things they had to do or not say to keep the sanity and make it that long.
To me denying my own sexual nature, where as my SO isnt sexually charged, would be far worse than having a little perverse fun at pixies.
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