In my situation, my SO *does* know about Pixies and my chats. However, I have not brought him here, simply because Pixies is my own personal "space." It is a place where I can be me without the fear of repercussions I might receive from my real life friends and family. My SO really has no idea what I do here, or that I post pictures, and he's okay with that. In my humble opinion, and as Skip and others pointed out as well, whether it is Pixies or some other "private" thing that you keep to yourself, it really has nothing to do with your relationship with your SO. It's all in keeping a balance.

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