He takes plenty of time unless I don't let him. Like I said sometimes it's ok if I don't come...like in doggy...I don't mind because its really intense and most of the time it feels like I've cum but I haven't. It's kinda hard to explain. And he hates quickies anyway...says they aren't as fulfilling as hours long sex. I normally have to beg him to go fast and make it quick. Lol. But I'd really like to experience cumming during intercourse.