see but thats a cop out, of course we'd all prefer to have someone do it for us. But some of us don't have a S/O, don't get it from our S/O or our S/O might be gone and a situation comes up in which you have to pleasure yourself. Thats where my question comes into play, in that situation, when you don't have the alternative of getting it from a partner would you give it to yourself if it weren't painful and could be done easily?