Not sure it works for men (doesn't always work for Fussy) but my motto is:

'If at first you don't succeed, try try again.' (With the aid of toys, pornography, some MAJOR dirty talking or really hot fantasising.)

Of course that's just me, but unless I'm so tired that I actually fall asleep while attending to myself, I'll just keep going til I get it right. Even if it takes all day!

Come to think of it I really am FAR too oversexed.......poor Fussy.

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