Remember that the original (and still technically correct) definition of "virgin" is *not* someone who has never had sex, but rather, someone who has never been married.

True it has come to mean someone who has never had sex, but well, different people have different ideas of what constitutes 'sex', so instead of saying "you're wrong", when confronted by someone who claims s/he has never had sex, then ask "what do *you* mean by sex"?

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