All these stories are making me woozy. It's like watching someone get kicked in the nuts...a guy can't help but squirm seeing that happen to somebody else.

I'll never forget the night my wife and I learned that we are unable to enjoy "Reverse Cowgirl". Still makes me cringe at the thought. I just don't bend that way.

And I also know what a "taint" is.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.