It's corny.....but in essence it's true.......

If you love someone.......set them free. If they come back to you, then they are yours. If they don't, it wasn't meant to be.

As to how one let's go............they just do.....unselfishly....with NO expectations. The more expectations we have....the more we can get hurt in the end if these expectations never come to fruition.

Final bit of advice..........The more you try to inject yourself into someones life when they don't want you there.......the more they won't want you there! Pressure never made for a stable and loving environment. Just put yourself in her shoes for a moment......or try and remember a time in your life when someone wanted to pull you closer when you didn't want to. Did you get closer despite what you felt? Or did it cause you to back away further?

Sorry I couldn't say what you wanted to hear.......but deep down you probably knew all of this anyway.

I wish you a happier time in a relationship that you both love being in......

Hope this helps in some small way.

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~