Well, South was looking for an update, so...

I wrote J back with a quick note saying that although it was nice hearing from him, I didn't really feel that I had the time or the interest in future long distance correspondance with him. I tried to be as polite as possible and I hope that did the trick. So far, haven't heard back.

And yes, I will be careful. Thanks again for the concern...I didn't mean to scare some of you!

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