I am definitely for consistency. I hate when it's varied. I had a lover once who would do 1-3 deep strokes and then pause. He said he did it so that he wouldn't come so fast. It drove me nuts, but not in a good way. I'd just start getting built up and then drop back down to zero over and over again. With my present lover, one of our favorites is missionary but with him raised up some. Then he more or less lies still, and I f**k him. That way I can be in charge of how consistent, how deep, how hard, how long, etc.

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Communication is the key.