I have a theory about hair:

Women who have short, spikey hair get it played with far more than women with long hair (men are scared to tangle up long hair) and there is something about a girl with short hair that makes you want to ruffle it!

Likewise men with long hair get it played with far more as it is out of the ordinary and my experience is that men who like to have their hair played with grow it long.

I love to have my head massaged and my hair played with (hence I have it short!) and it means that if it's gonna get pulled it gets pulled from the roots which doesn't hurt and doesn't damage the hair.

Doggy or any from behind position is great for hair pulling for me, but I have a tendancy to grab at my guys hair if I'm on top. Not that Fussy has much hair to grab ahold of, so with him, I tend to grasp his shoulders and dig my nails into his chest. He doesn't usually complain at the time though.......afterwards, when he sees the gouges I've made in skin maybe, but it's too late by then!

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