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Old 05-24-2003, 10:51 PM
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Be patient. Especially before you're accustomed to such back door entries, it can take a while for that inner sphincter to relax enough that trying to put anything further into you doesn't hurt. GENTLY and SLOWLY have him attempt to enter you or you attempt to push yourself back onto him. Most likely you will feel some pain as you attempt it. DON'T continue at that point but just stay still or back off a hair (no pun intended), then try again.

I'm a big one for reading as much as I can about something I want to attempt, such as this. Here are some good sites to check out. Clitical.com has 2 good articles on anal sex; if what I list for them here doesn't get you directly to those articles, just click on their "how to" in the left-hand column, and that will direct you to those articles. Libida's article is really good, too.

http://www.clitical.com/anal.php

http://www.libida.com/content/howto...=2&id=113457131 6

http://www.clitical.com/showhowto.php?id=3

http://www.puckerup.com/anal_advisor/anal.htm

You may find that you are more relaxed in one position than another. I still run into the same thing you did, but I find it much easier to finally relax enough when we start off in the spoon position (on our sides); then we switch to me on all fours or me on my stomach, etc. Don't give up yet!
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