A couple of drinks..... a small vibrating butt plug (my preference) to start off the evening usually works for me if I want anal. The butt plug will stretch me out a little and get that "no, I only allow things out, not in" muscle to relax. I have also used a small vibe on my clit while he is entering will turn the twinge of pain into pleasure/pain.... much better.................

I have also used one of those vibes with a clitoral tickler in my pussy while he is entering my ass......... talk about a triple treat.... hmmmmmmmmmmm

That is probably as close to a DP as I am gonna get...........

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