First off - Cheating is VERY BAD.. dont think about it at all! I understand the almost going to slave thing because I was so worried about being tempted by other women that I practically avoided making friends with women so that my .. now ex-girlfriend wouldnt grow worried that I'd cheat on her because she thought she didnt look so hot. I did my best to make her feel better about herself and it had some success. I absolutely love the way she looks.. she is/was just right for me..

It is ok to look at another woman and think that she looks nice. However, it is not good for you to wish that your wife looked like some other woman.

Obviously you loved your wife and thought she was attractive enough to marry right? What exactly is the problem with the way she looks now to inspire these feelings?

I suppose the best advice I can give is this : Looks in a partner are far less important than having someone you love with your heart, that understands YOU and that you truly enjoy being with through the GOOD and BAD times in your life... Try to focus on your feelings for your wife and any physical qualities that do attract you to her and see if that dont help..

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Wow... Funny isn't it? How you think Love has finally found you..... But at a whim it withers and blows away...