*sighs* okay this is a hard topic to speak on...I myself am no beauty queen, and can understand temptation and even moments of weakness...I for one have been left basicly at the alter before...won't go into that...but infidelity only hurts all parties involved in the end...perhaps bringing up a few topics with her in passing conversation would help...give her a reason to get dressed up...if you can't come out and say that you feel she has let herself go basicly...ask her how she feels about herself inside and outward appearances...she may want to change but be afraid too...of course that's just my two cents...that and a buck will get you a cup of coffee

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"I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, 'the man goes on top and the woman underneath'. For three years my husband and I slept on bunk beds."