Butt plugs. I have 2 of them, but I haven't used them in a couple of years. I much prefer my lover's penis, hands down (no pun intended).

krykrn, a lot more guys don't care for fellatio than we are led to believe. I've had lovers who just weren't turned on enough by oral sex to want to bother with it. It didn't matter HOW good their lovers were at trying to make them come that way. And then I've had lovers who just hadn't found someone who could do it for them in a way that would get "positive results." I'm in that boat when it comes to oral sex. I haven't had an orgasm from oral sex in over 12 yrs, partly because I haven't let many lovers try and partly because I haven't found a lover who was that fond of doing it either.

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