Well Mae, I hope all went well for you last night or this AM. You know you since he won't talk to his Dr. maybe you can. The meds he is on maybe a factor in him not keeping the erection. This is just a thought. I'm not a Dr.

Another thought is why don't you act out one of his fantasies. Maybe that is what he really wants but will not tell you this. Might work for both of you you get what you want and so does he. Good luck.