Just a side note for you metaphysical700. There are a lot of things involved and I think perhaps some of our responses were due to the wording of the your question.

As far as “different” (not good or bad) sensations go, I can share something that has been wonderful for both me AND my partners. The “exercise” of those muscles can be done together. To be in the pushup position, holding her wrists over her head, and see the smile she has as I try to just hold everything still and deep while she moves ONLY those muscles[*]<---(insert *eek*) and watches what she is doing to my face is unbelieveable.

The feelings you can share from varied pressures in different places can be unlimited and fantastic for you both.:lust: You both may enjoy it more if you don’t approach it as a goal of “tightness”.

Just a thought.

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