Very interesting question and answers so far.... For me...

Life is all about free choice and as long as one person satisfies me I will stick with them by choice, but dont try and force me.

If there is not one current person in my life then i become am a player...

So I guess i become either... at any one time.

I have grown and learnt so much about myself from online relationships and safely explored the depths and heights of my passions like never before.

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Life is intensely passionate