I'm the middle child of five......all two years apart except for me and next sis down (miscarriage between us left four years difference). Growing up, we never really talked about our sexuality to one another........but now that we are older we can talk about anything. It just never really came up back then.......even though we all knew when each one of us was deflowered.

I agree with you BCG, in that it would have taken me by surprise if my brother had asked me questions, but it would have been different if it were one of my sisters. I guess though, after my initial shock, I could have sat down and talked with him about sex. We've always talked about anything else.....so why not?

You'll be fine hun! You are intelligent and caring.....and that's all that's really needed. It will come to you.....what to say I mean. It seems odd now but like anything else we might dread.......when it's over we wonder what all the fuss was about. Best wishes! *hugs*

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