I guess I learned to take the control of the situation. I would call him. That way you aren't left wondering and then hearing a sad excuse the next time you hear/see him.

And, you also need to decide if the invite was that important to you to feel rejected. I guess, the older I got, the less patience I had with games..... either a person wants to spend time with me or not.. don't tell me yes and then "forget".

I don't know if this helps much Jenna, but that is how I operated...

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