1 ... Kind of .... some people call their obsessions "love" and that can be tooooo much.

2. Someone trying to keep too close of tabs on me makes me crazy .... my brother is one of those ultra romantic type guys (in a masculine way) ... but when I lived in the same town as him ... I couldn't ever tell him when I was sick cause if he knew, he'd call about 4 or 5 times a day to see how I was feeling .... when I'm sick I don't want to talk to anyone!!!! ... so, I realized a LONG time ago that I could never be married to someone with a romantic style like my brother .... tooo confining!

3. Yes .... from one of my very best friends .... I can tell her (and have) my deepest and most intimate or scary horrible or whatever type thoughts and she accepts it all and still is caring, and supportive.

4. I like to think I give it back to that friend and also to a couple of other really close friends of mine.