I only do it when I need some relief and she is not in the mood. I really have to have the need to do it, because it is not that enjoyable for me but it does offer some relief, not alot but some.
You have to understand that with my ex., that is about the only relife I got, most of the time. So it has really turned me off to it. Alot of times just thinking about having to have to do that to get relief, will kill my mood enough to were I don't want it, or after I start, it won't get hard or will wilt after a short period of time, due to the fact that I am having to do that to get relief instead of what I want to be doing.
But that is just me.

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