Wanda,
Maybe I missed something in your post but I did not find it harsh at all. Sounded to me that you were just stating your opinion and very well I might add. This is what makes this place so interesting. Now come on out of that hidey hole!
PS My wife and I are planning a trip to N.O. this summer. Any suggestions on places to stay, sites to see, activities? You can e-mail me. Thanks.

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