This post is mainly to Ophelia and Wanda. First of all, I'd like to say to Wanda I think ALL of her posts were not only inforamtive but inciteful as well. No need to go to your "hidey hole" and no need to apologize for your opinions.
To Ophelia, I'd like to say you brought up valid and thought provoking points. And ventured into areas most shy away from.

I have had a few experiences with women. I have never been in a monogamous relationship in which I felt I was in love with a woman though. It was just something that I wanted to do so I acted on it. And if the mood hits me again, I'll do it again. I think the most important aspect is letting the other person know where things stand before anything happens to avoid confrontaion, disilusionment and hurt feelings later. I am not sure where I would fall on the "sexuality number line." But then as you ladies pointed out it is not important to label ourselves. I try to be true to myself by not denying my wants and desires for fear of not "fitting the preconceived notions" of our judgmental society. I make no apologies for my personal choices and I applaud the Ophelias and Wandas of our society. So I guess intead of trying to decide among bisexual, homosexual, or heterosexual, I'll just take the generic label of SEXUAL!

Looking down...what is this that I'm standing on? Is it a soap box? Someone hold it steady while I step down.....

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