Hmmm.... ok....
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its mostly the hair on the upper lip that bothers me, I have seen some girls with horrendous cases of it, hers I can only really tell that she has in the right light, and I am fine with it.
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Um, so what's the problem? She's got some hair above her top lip where a lot of girls get it, and you don't often don't notice it, she likes it, and you're fine with it.
So what's the problem??
You say you don't believe she's that comfortable with it. And that may be. But it also doesn't seem to be ruining her life for her. A lot of people aren't happy about some part of their body, but unless it's definitely making them depressed or something, why worry?
By all means you need to reassure her that she is attractive, and that YOU are attracted to her. And you need to explain why. That's just your duty as a boyfriend to constantly tell your partner how much you are attracted to them and why.
But unless she is really unhappy with herself, I'd stop worrying about her hair. Tell her that some guys like a little hair on girls. That YOU like it.
And if it's a real problem for you, well I think you're going to make matters worse by continuing a relationship with someone you can't find sexy and attractive. And in that case, you need to ask yourslef two things: am I with the right girl? And am I too focussed on appearance and physical qualities.
I hope that makes sense, and I didn't mean to seem rude. That's just the way it seems to me, and I don't know either of you.
Good luck, I hope that helps!
CasperTG