Its about a year since I lost my virginity (I'm 18), but its only recently I've started getting more adventurous. I used to be really nervous when it came to sex and the more my guy went on at me the more I'd refuse. Eventually he calmed down a bit and listened to how I felt about it and became more understanding and less demanding. Then things were a lot better and I was more willing.

Dont push your girlfriend too much, you might end up pushing her away. Is it really worth losing her over when she might come round if you give her some time?

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