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Wow! Pretty Deep.
I hope I make sense here. I usually don't come to the general chat area, but this topic intrigued me and I feel strongly about it that I thought I would make some comments.
I am a pretty shy man in real life and if it wasn't for my wife making a move on me, we would probably not be married. Honesty, Respect, Caring is very important to me. My handle that I have used since I have gotten online 5 years ago allows me to speak up and come out of my shell. To me, you do meet the person themselves because you are not judging them on appearance as you do not see them first. Though I do have confidence in my real life as I am a manager and it comes more naturally, not being judge because of my appearance allows me to have even more confidence and allows me to open up more online.
My only expectations is I will be honest and respectful to you and I am hoping that the person on the other end who I am talking is the same to me and to others online. I have a wonderful wife and two beautiful kids so I am not looking for a relationship. My wife and I have an agreement, we are allowed to do what we want online as long as we don't give our our real names, our phone numbers, or home addresses so when I am onlne, I am only Stinger. But everytime I make a comment, it is from the heart. And what can be more honest, open, and being vulnerable from those people who decide to expose themselves for all to see. I admire all who do for them to have that courage. So when I make my comments to all of the beautiful ladies, it once again is from the heart and honest though are a fantasy as whatever I say to them will never happen.
Yes, I have online friends that I do care about as I do with my real life friends and if anything would ever happen to them, it would hurt. I do know how someone could end up having stronger feelings for someone online because of the comments that I made above and I have gotten in trouble with my wife because I have told that person that I did love em and we had to make a new rule that the L word could never be used ever again. Yes I do care for them the same way, but because of the respect and the love I do have for my wife, I will never say it again.
For my wife and I who have been married for almost 10 years and we have been together for 14 years, the internet has allowed us to rekindle our own relationship and allowed us to feel sexy and wanted from other people. We did end up meeting two online friends together about 4 years ago. Though we do not have plans on doing it again, the possibility is there if the two of us agreed on it, but whatever happens, we will be doing it together.
I hope I haven't bored too many people out there. Thank you for listening.
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