Your body knows when you're upset, even if your mind is lying to itself (not necessarily about the money....but it's a good first place to start). Try talking about that, and anything else that might be bugging you. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself to get back in the swing (it'll backfire...always does...pressure to start wanting sex again just drives it away).


In the meantime....do what you DO still enjoy. Being physically close doesn't have to lead to sex all the time, but it's still good for us.