To me it is about respect. We genuinely care about eachother and welcome" in-laws"(newbies) into the fold. We also have always welcomed back "out-laws" (returning members) regardless of how long they have been away or why. Most of the members here respect each other's differences and very few are grudge-holders, both behaviors, disrespect & grudge-holding can cause severe disruptions in the even flow and groove of a place like this. Plus they are super bad karma

I think lakritze has a point that people who are open and accepting about sex tend to be that way about life and people in general. We have also been very fortunate to have had very few instances of truly deceitful or unkind people attempt to rile the boards. Of course those people either lose their heads or eventually give up and get in on the groove

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