for me, it is truth; can be gently stated but clear and harsh if required. Without truth, a relationship is barely meaningful for me. Relationship implies interchange. I understand that some truths are more difficult to reveal than others. But BS is just the thing to end it for me.

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"You don't know how you met me, you don't know why, you can't turn around and say goodbye, all you know is when I'm with you, I make you free, and swim through your veins like a fish in the sea" (Uncle Kracker)