I'd like to help you but the first time that I had sex;the horse moved and jolted the horse and carriage!Memory is one of the
first things to go and I can't remember that far back.GOOD LUCK!!
Irish
P.S.I know that it is very important but I can't help you except to
tell you to relax.Maybe you're trying to hard.(pun not-intended)

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)