I would've LOVED a full figured barbie! Oops, too much information.

Anyway, to address your question:

True Love Transforms All...

You may not expect a transformation, but there usually will be one. That you know there are "holes" or imperfections means you're not lost in some fantasy world of perfect people doing beautiful things in beautiful ways. But, those same holes in other people aren't as sugar coated because you don't love them. Unless you are able to remain very objective.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.