First off, welcome to Pixies'! We'll be happy to help in any way that we can... Questions are always welcome! While you're here, have a look around, and you'll get to know us a little better...

Secondly, I just wanted to say that I hope you get all the appropriate tests done before you and your g/f do anything --- always important, but especially if she's had multiple partners before you... Make sure you use the necessary protection too! (Not trying to lecture here, just keeping an eye out for your safety!)

And third --- your question. I'm not a guy, so I don't know how helpful my advice will be, but there are two things I'd suggest.

Solution 1: If you think a sexual encounter is likely to happen, then masturbate before you go out. I know, I know, sounds like a weird solution --- but I'm sure you've already discovered on your own that after you've cum once, the pressure isn't quite so urgent on the next round. That should help to give you an extra measure of control when you actually climb into bed with her.

Solution 2 (to be used together with #1): Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay! Explore her body, with your hands, eyes, mouth, tongue, breath, and so on. It'll help you get to know what you're dealing with (I take it, since you only mentioned previous experience with masturbation, you're still a virgin?). You can observe her reactions to see what she responds to most, and focus on providing those most pleasurable sensations. Make sure she gets lots of stimulation before you actually have intercourse --- most women get the most intense pleasure from clitoral stimulation, not intercourse per se, anyway. Make sure she's had lots of enjoyment (not necessarily orgasm, just lots of great sensations) and only then should you move on to penetration.

The fact of the matter is that you're going to cum quickly at this point, no matter what you do, so don't worry about it --- she should be flattered that she turns you on so much! After you cum, you can go back to pleasuring her with your mouth and hands. I think the statistic for people our age (I'm 21, so not that much older than you) is that it takes an average of about 20 minutes for the guy to be fully hard again after ejaculation, which means quite simply that you've got 20 minutes to devote to her pleasure before you get to try again! Use that 20 minutes wisely, and she won't care if you cum the instant you touch her --- she'll be enjoying herself regardless!

Hope that helps --- I'm sure the others here will be able to add some further advice. Good luck, and most of all, have fun!!!

--- sweetstuff